Soft and good shape to grasp in your palm whilst you are working with it. Has multi-uses, will let y'all figure them out :)love it! gets right to the point, knocked me right out!The vibration is pretty strong.What a unique sex toy - that doesn't look at all like a sex toy! This little guy is easy to hold and uses a "pulsonic" vibrator which is especially handy for your nipples or clit. I really like it, and it's weird enough looking that you can keep it in your purse and not worry if you need to take it out in public. Sort of looks like it would be a cosmetic item. Silicone exterior had a nice feel and easy to hold. Would recommend.