This is a game changer for long distance play. I have almost everything from the Lovense line and I always like what I get. However, this one takes the cake. If they had added a sucking side to the clit vibrator, I don't think I'd need him ever again. ? The Flexer is well made and sturdy even with all of the moving parts. It's firm enough to sit comfortably where it should even when it's moving. I don't have any cons yet about the product itself.The remote side of the equation -Pros:- It has two separate controls for each mechanic- Great bluetooth conectivity as long as nothing is in the way i.e a heavy comforter.Cons:- I can't use it in bed without having the phone under the blanket- It doesn't seem to automatically reconnect as well as my Lush 3 when using partner play.