For starters, for the guys, you get ZERO satisfaction. You're constantly trying to put the thing back into place using the less-than-useless flimsy O-Ring that goes around the testicles. And as for the Lady, well you may as well as go out and purchase yourself a truck's inner tube and strap that to yourself. Yes, it makes things larger. But guys, I'm just giving it to you straight up, you didn't feel ANYTHING, no friction, no massage, nothing. You will however feel great frustration because you're consistently having to readjust and reposition it back in place and start all over again. IF you're one of those guys who doesn't feel anything when using a normal condom you can purchase from any pharmacy, just think how little feeling and friction you're going to feel wrapping a truck wheel inner tube around yourself several times because your Lad wants to feel something bigger from you. Buy her a large dildo and tell her to knock herself out while you read a good book, or play your favorite video game. I'm just being 100% real for you guys. THESE THINGS SUCK.