First of all, I’m a straight male who likes to have some back door fun (solo). I’m an experienced user of various dildos and anal toys. I only mention this so that readers of this review know this isn’t my first rodeo.The FeelI’ve never had the real thing so I cannot compare this dildo to that. What I can say is that out of all the toys I’ve tried, this is probably one of my all time favorites. For me, the girth is perfect. It’s not too wide and not too small. If it’s too small, what’s the point right? The length is also perfect for me. I can bottom out (pun intended) on the balls of this bad boy with no problem. Anything longer tends to hurt if you try to go too deep. So the length of this thing goes just deep enough where it still feels great. The overall feel for me is that it has enough stiffness where I can slide onto it without having to use a hand to manipulate entry. But it’s not so stiff that you feel like you have a boulder inside of you.Suction CupThe suction cup on this dildo is fantastic. It does not move, which makes for a fun and pleasurable ride. I have to use my fingers to pry the suction cup base off of whatever I stuck it on.The LookI ordered the light tone version. Ya know, average white dude skin tone. The one I received has a purple tint to it. I thought maybe it just had blue balls from pent up excitement during shipping. Nope, it’s still purple even after multiple uses.FlexibilityThe flex on this dude is great as well. I have unintentionally flexed this bad boy to its max in multiple directions and it gladly accommodated those angles. I’ve been able to hit my P-spot with the right angle.As my title says, I’ve had this dildo for about a year. It gets used once or twice a month. It’s still in the same condition it was in when it arrived at my door. No cracks, splits or tears. So far this has been a sturdy toy and still has a great suction cup. For me, this is one of the best dildos I’ve ever used and I highly recommend this one.And for the males out there who have negative thoughts or ideas about putting something in their back door, I encourage you all to try it. It’s a whole new world that feels awesome.