This is one of those occasional toys. The ones you keep buried in a drawer and only bring out on special occasions when the kiddos are out of the house. Just you and your special roleplay partner. Unfortunately for me, that moment hasn't happened. I didn't get any cooperation on testing this one so I had use it on myself. It's like wearing a mouth piece. Note that you have to breath through your nose. No complaints on the gag itself. The hardest part was getting it to fasten. The collar is good quality, but maybe a little big unless I didn't fasten correctly. Regardless, this is a fun toy to have around. Thanks.