This toy is incredibly realistic looking and feeling! It has a small curve and lots of veins and details. It’s super soft silicone and flexible yet the vibrating bullet does add a stiffness when inserted making it even more life like feeling. The size is average when it comes to the real thing which is great for beginners or those who like to Double Party! My wife wishes the tip was a bit bigger but otherwise it’s fine.The suction cup works really well and I imagine this would fit a strap on harness if that’s something you are into. The vibrations from the bullet carry over very well and even though it has a lot of settings I imagine you are like us and just go for max and always on. But, if you do like to change the settings it does come with a remote to make it quicker. The bullet is difficult to remove, but there really isn’t a need to unless you want to use it by its self. The charging works by magnets which is super convenient since you don’t have to remove it and charges via USB.Overall this toy is great! My wife and I enjoy bringing it into the mix for Double Party playtime and it’s not over bearing to her for back door entry. So far it’s done its job every time!Highly recommended!