I had my doubts when purchasing this product due to several negative reviews here on Amazon and other websites, but I am pleased to tell you that the Handy has worked like a charm in every aspect you can think of!First off, the huge selling point, its ability to connect to VR. I had absolutely no problems pairing it to virtual reality videos using my Oculus Quest 2 after following the instructions on their app. Even though the app is quite simple and rudimentary, it worked completely fine! The video sync is adjustable, helping it to truly submerse you in a one-of-a-kind experience! Seriously makes you feel like you’re really there. ?Second, the feel. All you have to do is soak the sleeve it comes with in some hot water, pour in some quality lube, tighten the velcro strap, and it comes darn close to the real thing. I haven’t purchased any of their other sleeve types, but I will definitely consider! Cannot speak for all men out there, but if you around 5.5-7” and have a regular to decent girth this toy is PERFECT!Some other things to add: it’s not loud but it isn’t very quiet either. If you have people living with you, I’d suggest turning on a fan or some music. Also, if you have the money to buy a handsfree desk mount, do it! There are plenty of options you can pick from online and makes the whole user experience much more enjoyable, ESPECIALLY when using VR.TLDR: If you have the money and want a masturbator that can fully submerse you in VR, this is a really really really good option! I would recommend for any frisky man.