This is a super tight hole, perhaps a bit too tight if you are anything over 8 inches long or have better than average width. But given that it's supposed to be a substitute for anal sex, tight is what you are looking for. The device is perfect for solo sessions or can be used with a partner or friend who's willing to help out or join in. Open minded men always seem to be intrigued by this (I keep mine out in the open as it's a great conversation starter) and their expressions when they first try it are always wonderful. "Why beg a chick for anal sex when I can use this?" has been said several times to great laughter and ultimately orgasmic pleasure. So if you are not super huge, give it a try. (Sadly, a super endowed friend gave up on this pretty lady after struggling for several minutes to get his head through her hole---lube can only do so much if you're that big.) Or keep it around the house for your buddies to use when everyone's hanging out watching the game but the game has turned into a blowout dud.Cons: Can be a bit of a hassle to clean up and I strongly recommend that you start clean up soon after you've deposited any semen into it. Otherwise it gets much harder to clean up. Wearing a condom while using it is an option to keep clean up hassle free but some might not want that extra layer in between them and their new found anal substitute. Mine lasted two years and I replaced it. But she took a heck of a pounding during that time so that may not be such a con.