I recently discovered after 12 years together that my husband has been silently suffering from porn/sex addiction. After hitting bottom, everything came out and as he's committed to his sobriety, I've committed to working on restarting our marriage together. This book was recommended by his addiction therapist and our marriage counselor, so I figured I'd give it a read. For those reading this review, you're almost certainly going through something similar to my own situation, so I'll be very blunt-- this book stirs up A LOT of emotions and will prompt several questioms regarding your own relationships. So much hindsight in this, and the horrors other women have suffered at the hands if infidelity as told in the series of narratives will help you to realize this is an unfortunately common issue and that you are not alone. I would not recommend reading this in bed next to your husband or significant other. You'll likely find yourself throwing it at him or smacking him repeatedly with it. Read it in a quiet and private place so that as feelings/questions arise, you can process things and plan constructive conversations.Side note: we are thriving at this point in our recovery. While it is a long road, love can be enough to start the process of rebuilding trust and rediscovering one another. I loved my husband before his sobriety, but I'm so much more unbelievably in love with the new, sober and awake man he's constantly evolving into every day. Don't give up easily! Anything worth having is worth fighting for as long as you're on the same team.