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The Social Sex: A History of Female Friendship - Exploring Women's Bonds Through Time | Perfect for Book Clubs & Women's Studies The Social Sex: A History of Female Friendship - Exploring Women's Bonds Through Time | Perfect for Book Clubs & Women's Studies
The Social Sex: A History of Female Friendship - Exploring Women's Bonds Through Time | Perfect for Book Clubs & Women's Studies
The Social Sex: A History of Female Friendship - Exploring Women's Bonds Through Time | Perfect for Book Clubs & Women's Studies
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From historian and acclaimed feminist author of How the French Invented Love and A History of the Wife comes this rich, multifaceted history of the evolution of female friendship.In today’s culture, the bonds of female friendship are taken as a given. But only a few centuries ago, the idea of female friendship was completely unacknowledged, even pooh-poohed. Only men, the reasoning went, had the emotional and intellectual depth to develop and sustain these meaningful relationships.Surveying history, literature, philosophy, religion, and pop culture, acclaimed author and historian Marilyn Yalom and co-author Theresa Donovan Brown demonstrate how women were able to co-opt the public face of friendship throughout the years. Chronicling shifting attitudes toward friendship—both female and male—from the Bible and the Romans to the Enlightenment to the women’s rights movements of the ‘60s up to Sex and the City and Bridesmaids, they reveal how the concept of female friendship has been inextricably linked to the larger social and cultural movements that have defined human history.Armed with Yalom and Brown as our guides, we delve into the fascinating historical episodes and trends that illuminate the story of friendship between women: the literary salon as the original book club, the emergence of female professions and the working girl, the phenomenon of gossip, the advent of women’s sports, and more.Lively, informative, and richly detailed, The Social Sex is a revelatory cultural history.
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The authors say their book, "covering a period of more than two millennia, does not pretend to be all-encompassing." But it comes pretty close. This sweeping survey of women's friendships from biblical times to the present (way more than two millennia!) is breathless in the best sense of the word, touching just long enough on a succession of fascinating, well-summarized examples to draw out the common threads from Naomi and Ruth to the present day. What struck me most powerfully in the first half is how much more difficult women's history would be to write if not for women's close, intensely loyal friendships with each other. For instance, we learn that the remarkable poetry of the Mexican Sor Juana Ines de la Cruz would have remained unknown had her friend Maria Luisa de Laguna not brought it to the attention of the Spanish court. And there's Madame Roland's memoirs of the French Revolution, which we have only because her friend Sophie Grandchamp smuggled them out of prison. The same goes for sheer survival: "The Social Sex" contains countless stories of women who supported female friends who were destitute or in crisis.Women's friendships have been important from the earliest times because, with our male-dominated economic structure, women are more more likely to need to rely on each other than are men. Yalom and Brown don't gloss over the important differences of time, place, social class, and race -- in fact, they suggest that overcoming these barriers may be more important now than ever. Yet they underscore some important constants, critically the degree to which their friendships have enabled women (Hildegard of Bingen, the Blue Stockings of 18th century England, Jane Addams and Eleanor Roosevelt and their circles) to educate themselves, grow personally, and carry out ambitious projects that the male power structure would never have let them pursue otherwise. Working class women's friendships were largely invisible for most of this history, but Yalom and Brown touch on it where they can, and when the literature in this area widens out in the 20th century, they give us this story, too. The same goes for friendships between women in non-white communities. And they give us a good account of the changing means of friendship in recent times, including social media and the threat to "traditional" women's friendships in our atomized and commodified cultural landscape. If anything, however, women's friendship is more important today than ever: "With the uncertainties surrounding marriage, it is likely that friendships will continue to offer forms of support women would once have found within their families," Yalom and Brown write. They are right, and this fascinating survey gives us the historical perspective necessary to see why.

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