Most of the reviews you will read about this product have been written by ladies, which is totally understandable. But, if you're a guy looking for another guy's experience with this thing or you just want to read a man's perspective, look no further.My wife and I have been together going on 15 years this year, and as far as the bedroom goes we have always had a fantastic and amazing relationship in that department. A good and attentive man will learn his woman and where to go on her to give her the pleasure she rightfully deserves. That being said, sometimes you just need to have a "quickie" and go about your busy day. There isn't time for the "full production" every time. With that in mind I decided to look for something that could aid in those such cases. After all, our ladies shouldn't have to sacrifice an O just because their lives are busy. After reading many interesting and sometimes comical reviews (after all, who better to seek advice from than other women), I purchased this product in May of last year. After almost a full year of occasional use I can give an honest review. Here's what you need to know when thinking about buying this little helper...1. It's a nice size - not gigantic like some wall-plugged lightsaber that requires two hands and a prayer to control.2. It is velvety smooth and made from this silk-like rubberized material that cleans up super easy with soap and water.3. It seems to hold a charge for a while - it just depends on how often you use it. We did have one occasion where it died mid-fun and I had to complete the job via ummm, lets just say "alternate means". That was only because it had sat in my nightstand for like a month after we'd used it several times without recharging. Do yourself a favor and top it off every few uses.4. Speaking of charging, the cord is TINY and plugs into a USB port. When I put it on to charge off my desktop PC it literally dangled from the front of my PC. Probably not an issue for those without children (such as my wife and I) or those who don't have lotsa company that comes to their house. However, if you do and don't want them to see a sex toy dangling from that desktop PC in your computer nook or laying next to your laptop, you may want to look into a charging cord with a wall plug. I mean I suppose it would be a great conversation starter if they did see it...5. It comes with a bazillion vibration patterns, some of which actually made me laugh out loud. I don't see how most of them would be anything other than funny or annoying. Just crank it up to a steady 11 and get it in the right spot. The vibration is surprisingly strong for something so small. It does its intended job well.5. Comes with a cheap but suitable travel sleeve. You'll make it through TSA fine without the agent looking at you with "that look" when traveling. It's small and easy to hide.Overall, for the price, it was a great buy and has been a welcome addition to my bedroom. We don't use it all the time, but when she or I have things to do and my wife wants me to "massage her neck" in a hurry, this thing comes through with the save. It'll do the same for you.