I don't believe the pictures make it clear on size. I know they give measurements but you still don't really fully understand until you have it in your possession. I thought it would be average sized. NOPE! I compared it to my old stand by and it dwarfed it completely! When I unpackaged it, I gasped. I said omg that is going to hurt plus with all the marital ED happening, I am just so out of practice! I was so dismayed as I studied the phalis! It was beautiful though, as I held it in my hands. It had a good weight to it (maybe 1.5lbs), very sturdy. I loved the look and feel of it in my hands, it felt soft and smooth on the surface and wasn't too rigid or overly stiff but had the exact right amount of firmness to not let you down! The helmet was so perfect! I hate when they put a little tiny pointy tip on there. That would have only been stabby (No, thank you!). That was one reason I picked this one for lack of a better word "bulbus" is better at least for me anyway! By the time I was done eyeballing this thing, it seemed to be glowing in my hands (sigh). I said oh, what the hell, I already opened it, it's super cheap so it's not going back anyway, let me really lube up and try. I cleaned it and myself first then used a safe internal water based lube as well as externally. I still had to lube this bad boy twice to get it right but omg it was worth it! I had THEEEE most wonderful time!!! This is not really a beginner type toy! This is a lot of "meat"! LOL! It would really make the average healthy man blush at the competition! I am not sure this would be my go to all the time. I certainly could not use it everyday but I am damn sure coming back to it! So, worth every penny. It paid for itself on the first use! Who wouldn't pay $13 for the best "O" they've had in months? Hello!!!